Apr 26, 2008 | by
alto A personal website discussing ideas around culture, community & connection; sex of course being a given. Our last 20 articles are found below.
Authored by alto, a 41 y/o gay flight paramedic, recent MFA creative writing graduate & single dad to an insane canine. Current obsessions: a new novel, & Starbucks banana chocolate smoothies.

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Though spanning several different theory domains and priorities for the
movement, all the resources listed on this page understand the idea of women
being a distinct and oppressed class in our current patriarchal
culture. Each of the following groups or websites works in their own
specific ways to end gender based oppression, and violence against
women perpetrated by men.
The sites on this page all have varied and sometimes divergent approaches to
racial justice and racial understanding. They write about, discuss, and
usually but not always have a personal or educational connection to,
issues of race, ethnicity, and racism in North America. All actively
work towards a goal of eradicating racist and white supremacist
attitude and action.
These organizations and web sites write from the perspective that for most people, sexual orientations and gender identify be viewed on a human continuum of diverse sexuality and gender deportment. They further believe that all are entitled to nothing less than full rights and access ascribed to all citizens.
I intentionally place the transphobia website first in this list to center the idea and demonstrate my sincere belief that the mainstream lesbian and gay community must offer full acceptance and support to our trans brothers and sisters
Out of all the various styles and genre of film, for me none is more powerful than a documentary touching on social themes through a uniquely personal lens. In the early nineties, on a bored Sunday afternoon I was channel surfing when I came across just such a film. I have racked my brains and done many searches, all in vain, and I'll be damned if I can remember the name of the film.
At any rate, it was a film about an elderly homeless man, a drunk, living on Toronto's streets. It was gritty, powerful, and through what it tried to do, and eventually succeeded in doing, it was profoundly life changing. Both for its subject, and for this viewer anyway.
The filmmaker followed the man for over a year as he went from hitting rock bottom living on the streets in the early stages of liver failure, and followed the man through several failed attempts at rehab, and the eventual painful reuniting with the son he had walked out on at birth. It was a tough, bleak, and often unappealing thing to watch, and the man was often hard to like.
Then close to the end of the filming, something happened. Through his son, this man realized what he had wasted for all those years. He went back to rehab, and he made it stick. The film ends with the man happy, clean, sober and employed full time as a waiter at his local diner. And beginning to make up for a lifetime of disconnection and regret. A rare occurrence to be sure, but I so admire the vision of that film maker in documenting that rare doesn't have to mean never.
The following Eric Clapton hit was played several times throughout the film, and it worked in very powerful ways as the thematic backdrop to many of the harder to view scenes. To this day I will always get misty whenever, and wherever I hear it, as it does an exacting job of completely humanizing its subject.
Apr 26, 2008 | by
alto
Reader Comments (4)
So I am torn on whether I actually saw this or you told me about it (?), but it does ring a bell.
Thanks again for a weekend feel good post!
...rare doesn't have to mean never.
Nice to hear a rare happy ending. How great for him and his son. Love that song, too.
i don't know why it's so hard for so many folks to see drunks and drug addicts as human and to have a little compassion. i'm glad there was a happy ending here. so much heartbreak and heartache and devastation coming out of the rampant addiction in my country. i can't help but think if the world were a little more hospitable to all of us, there might not be such a need to escape.