Feb 24, 2008 | by
alto A personal website discussing ideas around culture, community & connection; sex of course being a given. Our last 20 articles are found below.
Authored by alto, a 41 y/o gay flight paramedic, recent MFA creative writing graduate & single dad to an insane canine. Current obsessions: a new novel, & Starbucks banana chocolate smoothies.

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Though spanning several different theory domains and priorities for the
movement, all the resources listed on this page understand the idea of women
being a distinct and oppressed class in our current patriarchal
culture. Each of the following groups or websites works in their own
specific ways to end gender based oppression, and violence against
women perpetrated by men.
The sites on this page all have varied and sometimes divergent approaches to
racial justice and racial understanding. They write about, discuss, and
usually but not always have a personal or educational connection to,
issues of race, ethnicity, and racism in North America. All actively
work towards a goal of eradicating racist and white supremacist
attitude and action.
These organizations and web sites write from the perspective that for most people, sexual orientations and gender identify be viewed on a human continuum of diverse sexuality and gender deportment. They further believe that all are entitled to nothing less than full rights and access ascribed to all citizens.
I intentionally place the transphobia website first in this list to center the idea and demonstrate my sincere belief that the mainstream lesbian and gay community must offer full acceptance and support to our trans brothers and sisters

In the fall of 2001, when David and I bought the apartment that I now call home, there were many reasons that it was a very bad idea. One, the housing market in Toronto was definitely not on side of the buyer. Two, the apartment, a 1940's walk up that had just been gutted and renovated, was located in Rosedale, Toronto's most expensive area. The price was, no matter how we looked at it, out of our range.
Though the reasons to buy it were many. A five minute walk from the downtown core, and a twenty minute walk to the center of the university campus, the location was perfect. The day that we toured the suite and walked out onto the balcony, we both seemed to know we would find a way to make it work.
At 1900 square feet, the top floor two bedroom end unit apartment was huge, and the balcony that ran from one end of the suite to the other ran the entire length of the south end of the building. The view was one that faced into the deep and lush Rosedale Valley ravine. Standing on the balcony in the fall breeze, we could make out easily a family of coyotes between some ravine trees.
"What do you think"? I asked, speaking to no one in particular.
"Sold", was the definitive response that came from David as he gazed at the four legged family in the distance.
It was the only response I needed to hear. An hour later, documents signed, we began to plan how we would manage this very impulsive decision. And luckily, things simply fell into place. This past Friday marked the day I wrote the last check on the mortgage.
While going through photos earlier today, I came across the above picture of the east end of our balcony, and I was reminded how happy I am that we took a risk and followed through with what we knew we wanted. Judging by the picture below of Singher resting on the same balcony mid summer, I think someone else also agrees with the decision.
Feb 24, 2008 | by
alto
Reader Comments (9)
Those are great shots! The balcony is so lush. Was that this past summer?
BTW Abercrombie wants to tell Singher she is looking pretty fetching in that pose!
Yes, Abercrombie is my dog in case anyone is wondering.
Sounds wonderful, and congrats - that's got to be a good feeling. Singher looks like one contented girl, with her little friend there.
Dere Singher, yoo hav pritty spots. I lyk yur toy.
Love,
Batman
I am glad you and were fortunate to find and make this beautiful place together! You are right about having faith and nerve. Sometimes you must jump and just know the parachute will open. Lovely photos, especially of that one very precious little girl curled up with her toy. Why am I the only gay man I know that isn't good with plants? I was jealous of the plants...
Singher getting fan mail I see. Such a popular girl!
Congratulations on making your last payment, Al! That is HUGE, wonderful news! Most of us don't have our house paid off until late 50's or later.
Nice shots of the grounds and of Singher with her toy! :-) She looks completely contented in her home.
Love,
3T
Six years and the mortgage is paid? Holy smokes, I'll never see the end of my 30-year mortgage. Seriously, I won't be in this house that long ...
Congratulations Al. And that dog is too sweet!